Owning my part I can’t be blaming others for bad relaitonships. I am the person who chose to be in a relationship. I am the person who decided to continue. I am the person who in a moment decided to ignore some red flags, to not listen to my inner voice. I take responsibility for how I was being. Others are a mirror to what I need in the relationship with myself.
Start valuing the lessons your mistakes teach you. – Mistakes are okay; they’re the stepping stones of progress. If you’re not failing from time to time, you’re not trying hard enough and you’re not learning. Take risks, stumble, fall, and then get up and try again. Appreciate that you are pushing yourself, learning, growing and improving. Significant achievements are almost invariably realized at the end of a long road of failures. One of the ‘mistakes’ you fear might just be the link to your greatest achievement yet.